O yes!!! … pointed out to Grandma the other week, that:
- She gets withdrawal symptoms if she has not seen the 2.8yo in 4-5 days.
- That she literally gets “rejuvenated” with the little soul in our care.
- That Oupa en Ouma is MOEG every single time she leaves. Man she is BUSY!!!
- That we see the little one more awake per week than her parents the entire week.
Titbit: Man, when wife and I go out (anywhere) with the little one, people think she is ours.
If daughter is with they think she and her mother are sisters.
Me, they then look at me, see the grey beard and wonder.
Wife was quite “insulted” the other day, lady comments “you are so young.” Wife looked at our daughter, pointing, no, that is our daughter, this is my grandchild. Genes is all I can say.
Being an Oupa is the best thing EVER!
And it is true!
You can give them back!!!
You do NOT have to discipline nothing. NOT YOUR JOB!
Best part is, she somehow instinctively follows our rules. And no, the house is not toddler proof. We go to her, explain why she must not fiddle with xyz, and she steers clear. OBVIOUSLY one keeps a hawks eye out all the time … and Oupa “knows” she is going to do try things when you least expect it.
Thank snot for the electrician who refused flat-out to install the solar system where I thought it was “best” … because of toddlers, his words, ±10years ago. He was spot on. Thank you Herman!
So yes, this Village is raising this little one.
Amen!
Joke is, I am more than happy to add more panels … soon we are 9 + a 2.8 year old on a 5kva system.
Geysers, yes plural, my ONLY "nemesis.
But I have plan a, b, c, d … z.
With A, B, C … Z if none worked.
Forget heat pumps/solar geyser … one day will add a “dedicated” (kinda) grid-tied inverter and more panels and bugger this thing called geyser heating … use the spare in the house the rest of the time, Victron is for LS. Finish en klaar.
AND IF LS comes back with a vengence, I swear I will go 2nd hand Fronius.